What is Divorce Mediation?
Divorce Mediation is a voluntary process in which a couple uses a mediator to help them make informed decisions and develop a mutually acceptable marital settlement agreement within a confidential setting.
What is the Role of the Mediator?
The mediator works as a neutral third party to help the couple identify issues and develop options that best meet their needs so that they can reach a settlement agreement that resolves those issues without becoming involved in a court battle.
Who Prepares Our Legal Documents?
If an agreement is reached that resolves all of your issues, we can prepare the legal documents you need. You can also have them prepared by your own attorney. And, even if we prepare your legal documents, you can have them reviewed by your own attorney before you sign them.
Will We Have to go to Court?
No! Once an agreement is reached all your legal documents can be executed virtually and e-filed with the court to be reviewed and signed by the Judge.
What are Our Chances for Success?
Most couples we work with reach an agreement. Part of the reason for this is that the people who use our services want to avoid a hurtful and costly legal battle and do not want to lose control over those decisions that most affect their lives.
Who Pays for Mediation?
We can discuss this with you at the first mediation session. Generally, each of you will contribute some portion of the fees so that both of you will benefit from an expeditious and economic resolution.
How Long Will it Take to Complete the Process?
Most couples reach a settlement in two or three mediation sessions. These sessions can be completed in a week or two or spread out over several months, depending on your needs.
Does Divorce Mediation Work if We Want a Legal Separation?
Yes. Many couples use a separation to give themselves a better perspective on their relationship. Mediation can help create a custom-made separation agreement that best meets the needs of each person. Interpersonal and financial issues are often included in the agreement.
What are the Benefits of Divorce Mediation?
Divorce Mediation promotes better communication and allows a couple to control the decisions that affect their lives. It typically costs a fraction of the cost of retaining two attorneys to negotiate an agreement for them, is confidential and can be completed in less time than a traditional divorce. It also benefits children by reducing conflict between the couple.
Do We Need to Agree Ahead of Time?
No! Many couples are concerned that they might not be able to reach an agreement because they either do not communicate or can’t agree on what they want. However, you do not have to agree on what you want. You only have to want to reach an agreement.
Can We Have Our Own Attorney?
Yes! Although we will provide you with all of the legal information you will need to make informed decisions, if you wish, you can have your own attorney at any time during the process.
What if We Want a Divorce?
We can prepare and file your divorce papers with the court as soon as you execute your settlement agreement if you want an immediate divorce. Or, if you prefer to wait, you can live with your settlement agreement for as long as you wish since it never expires.